Monday, January 2, 2012

Calls and Short Visits Welcome

We're getting settled into the hospice thing. We had an enrollment visit from one nurse on Friday and got Cheryl's hospital bed and table ordered for Saturday delivery. A weekend/night nurse came out Saturday morning and did an initial assessment on Cheryl and had to do some more data entry into the system. She made a few recommendations on bathing and mobility issues to help with her care.

After lunch, Jason, Sharon and Dylan called to let us know that they would be arriving shortly and then the hospice delivery driver called to say that he was on the way with the bed. I helped Cheryl into the bathroom to freshen up and stepped into the den to get things ready for the bed delivery. I'd only been away from her about one minute when she called my name and I turned to see that she had fallen in front of the bathroom vanity. After untangling her and the walker, I was able to get her back on her feet and settled in the recliner in time for Jason and the delivery driver's arrival.

Sunday went well for Cheryl, she is showing definite signs of weakness and is having additional pain in her lower back but we are able to keep things under control with regular doses of high octane pain meds. It was very difficult day for me as I ended our Sunday morning service by asking our loving church to grant me a leave of absence during this difficult period. They graciously consented and have offered to continue my salary. I am especially thankful that Dr. Craig Dunham is willing to step in and provide preaching and pastoral support for the church during my absence.

Hospice is still on holiday schedule today, so we have not yet had a visit from Cheryl's assigned case worker. The nurse that came out today checked her vitals and gave me some hints on helping Cheryl move across the bed more comfortably. Per the instructions we received from the intake nurse, we've been charting Cheryl's pain medication. Based on that, the nurse conferred with the doctor and they have decided to put her on the timed release Fentanyl Patch. This should avoid the peaks and valleys that she's been experiencing with the other medications.

Keep us in your prayers as we travel this final leg of the journey. We've had 32 good years of Home, great care at the Hospital, the nurturing of Hospice and the promise of Heaven. God has been faithful through each step along the way.

7 comments:

  1. I just can't bear this Jud.
    Cindy M.

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  2. Love you all .. I know this is going to be so hard but I know I will not say goodbye but "til next time". Cheryl you have been one of my dearest and best friends and I can't imagine not having you there each day to just call and say "hey" too.. I will treasure all our moments we've had and the ones we have left.. See you tommorow.. Love , Rachel

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  3. Mr. Jud and Mrs. Cheryl,

    I know I haven't been in touch over the years, but I've been keeping up with things through your blog as well as through Jason and Michelle on Facebook. Your family and the Perrymans have always held a very special place in my heart. I've kept everyone of you in my thoughts and prayers these past couple of months. These last two posts break my heart, and I'm sorry that such a wonderful family is having to struggle through all of this.

    Sarah (Rivers)

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  4. Cheryl,
    This is not good bye but see you on the other shore. It hurts so much to see the two of you go through this. We love you dearly and we'll see you in Heaven. God bless and keep you both right now.
    Love in Christ,
    The Garlands

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  5. Hi Cheryl, I just read the other posts and I like what your friends, the Garlands, said: "This is no goodbye, but see you on the other shore." You know that's how I feel about it too. We will all one day step through that door and be united primarily with our Lord, but also with our loved ones who have preceded us there. I find visiting with you to be such a joy because you have that hope that dwells in the hearts of us who know Him. The beauty of your testimony and the confidence we have can diminish any sorrow we feel. I do feel sorrow at the knowledge of loss, but the gain is so great! I will enjoy your company here as long as I can. You are such a blessing to me. I love you, Cheryl.

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  6. Cheryl I love you and I'm sorry for all the years we've lost. Thank you for your persistence, love and example of what God expects from us all -forgiveness and living his example. I also hope to see you on the other shore and know dad is there waiting. I love you and pray for strength and pain free days and that Jud is also cradled in Gods love. Till we meet again--

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  7. I love you more than you could ever know. You mean so much to me. God is good even in times of difficulty. Aunt Cheryl I am so thankful that I have had the wonderful opportunity to love and be loved by such an amazing person. You are the most kind and gentle person I have ever met. Looking back thru the years I have many fond memories of the events that helped mold and shape me to who I am today. You have always inspired me to look for the good in every situation and show kindness and mercy to everyone no matter whom they may be. I send you big but gentle hugs. :o) We (my family, church family and dear friends) are praying for you, Uncle Jud, Michelle, Jason and their families. Again I want tell you all that I love you so much.

    -Rebecca

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